Of the things I get asked most often as a sub, by my non-submissive friends, the majority start with “does he make you….?” Insert whatever thing they can’t imagine doing…. kneel, be naked, wear a collar, dress a certain way, accept punishment, call him Sir. These questions always bring that soft little smile to my lips, and I reply… “he doesn’t make me do anything. I do <whatever they just mentioned> because I want to”. “But why would you want to <whatever it is they think is weird/odd/scary>?” they ask in response. My reply is always the same, “because it makes him happy”.